Friends with Benefits, Boos, or Whatever You Call It!

Let me start by saying no I am not gay and three months ago I wouldn't have posted this.lol..Now that i'm in a relationship i can express my feelings on how a man thinks about different relationships. I believe about 90% of males (I can't speak for different races) are not ready or do not want to be in a committed relationship while in college. I thought i was one of these guys. Their are many ways you can know a guy does not want to be in a relationship and if some of the ladies out there will just sit down and think about their situation they can realize these things. And for the guys, if you understand that all a woman wants is for you to listen to her and really understand how she feels, not to hide anything from her, and to be faithful. Their are a few simple clues that a woman can detect from a man that lets her know that a guy doesn't want to be in a committed relationship. If a guy texts you more than he calls he doesn't/isn't ready for a relationship. A guy who doesn't want to be in a relationship text message females more than he calls mainly because he's texting more than one at a time throughout his day.If a guy only hits you up at a certain time of night he only wants you for one thing. Try asking him to come over to chill in the day time or telling him your period is on then ask to come over see what excuse he makes. I'm not going to go into all of them, those are just two of the few main ones. Now for the guys it's pretty easy right?WRONG!What women want is pretty easy to understand but actually performing these acts are the hard part. The main thing for a guy is to tell the woman exactly how you feel and your intentions with her. If you let her know your intentions are not to be in a relationship and you agree to be friends with benefits, boos, or whatever they are calling them these days then when she finds out you're doing your own thing on the side then she really can't be mad at the situation. And for the ladies remember assumming gets you hurt. If you assume the guy isn;t talking to anyone else and you find out he is he is not at fault for your assumptions. Rather then assuming what he is doing, the both of you should have a conversation about these types of issues to avoid this type of situation. Remember i'm not gay and this would not have been posted about 3 months ago..lol