One thing you never want to do is hold a grudge. I'm glad that I found out this early in life rather than late. The reason you never want to hold a grudge on someone is because you never know when you're going to need that person. People don't always do the right thing or treat you the best but don't hold that against them, always forgive but never forget. These words were written to me today by a certain someone and made me feel better about myself for not holding a grudge or anything against this person:
"What's up Man? I don't have enuff space 2 say the things i need 2 say but I'll get it started and finish anotha day. First off I love you. actions may not prove it, but u r my first born n I think of u daily. The money situation is anotha note. I have failed u and I am ashamed of that. My only hope is that u somehow find it n ur heart 2 4give me and give me anotha chance at being ur Father. I kno it will take time b/c the same thing happened w/ me and ur grandad. It took a while 4 us 2 repair the damaged that we caused ova the years. I love u and I'm proud of u. Thanks 4 making me so proud and proving 2 ur mom who did an exceptional job raising u that u r a strong black man raised by a single parent and has never been in trouble w/ the law and will grow 2 b a respectable citizen living the american dream. Be safe up there and take care. I love u SON!!!!!!"
-I understand that truly forgiving someone is hard and i'm not talkin about convincing yourself you forgive that person but truly forgiving them. "Although I forgave I will never forget!"
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