Living In A Fantasy World!

To many people today are living in a fantasy world; meaning they watch movies, reality shows, and music videos and think that's how they're supposed to be living. Let me start with the women. Women see the big weddings on tv, they watch RHOA (Real Housewives of Atlanta), they see Nicki Minaj with the long different color weave etc. and they get the silly idea that they can do the same or they're supposed to be like this. Why would you want to be a housewife seriously? Who doesn't want to be independent? You rather be known as an ex baller wife rather than have your own money to back up on? Just because couples on reality shows and movies are living the perfect life and have the huge wedding and are living in marital bliss doesn't necessarily mean that your life should be this way. If you sit down and think about it, it's in theaters for a reason! Not saying that you can't have this life of course i'm just saying just because your life isn't like the way you see it on tv doesn't mean it's a failure. Women get so caught up in what they think they should have and they don't realize what they already have. This attitude often ruins relationships rather than saves them. Now on to the fellas. We watch music videos on BET, and movies with these guys who have alot of power and we sort of compare our life to theirs. We as men, should not worry about what other men have and be grateful for what we already have and who we already are. If a man and woman are content with their relationship and are worried about what they do in their relationship only then the relationship should prosper.